Prayer, Power, Harvest

How much would change in my life if I changed one small thing today, and continued that small thing every day?

Recently, several things in my life have seemed to be centered around the theme of the importance of small things. The sermon at church last Sunday. My current audiobook. Conversations with a friend. My own thoughts and recognition of how my life has been changing this year.

When I was a child, I had huge dreams of being a medical missionary pilot to a remote tribe somewhere deep in the mountains of some faraway country. I dreamed of flying patients out for medical treatment, serving them in a tangible way while learning their language and culture, and being able to preach the Gospel to them in that way. I worked on learning new languages. I devoured books like Lords of the Earth, Peace Child, Bruchko, The Wind Blows Wild, and Flying Canada. I even started pursuing medical training, starting with my first official first-aid training around age 11 or 12. I researched mission organizations trying to find the “perfect” one that I would like to go with in the future. But then life happened, and my dreams changed.

I got married and had a few children. And I had to battle. I had so many thoughts about what even was the point of my life now that I was a mom. Why did I even bother with all the training and classes and desires that apparently didn’t mean anything now? Did I do all those things just so I could have cool stories to tell our children? Maybe all those dreams I had were actually for our children to fulfill. I couldn’t see any possible way that those dreams would now become a reality now that my life was completely overtaken by raising small humans. Time and time again, I turned to God and said, “I will trust You. I will hold my dreams with an open hand, and will continue walking in what I know to be the right thing for right now.”

(Now, do NOT read into this that I regret having children or that I am a victim of motherhood. This is most certainly not true. But motherhood has brought further levels of surrender and trust that I needed. And it was good.)

And so I kept walking through life. Living life every day with the children. Doing small, seemingly insignificant, things every day. I couldn’t see a huge change. I even wondered at times if motherhood was even a calling. The act of mothering and raising small children has not been difficult for me for the most part, so I’ve wondered if I was doing something wrong.

Then I started wondering, how can I be an even better mother? How can I make sure that our children have the best foundation possible? How can I change myself so that I have endless patience, never feel stressed, and never feel like I have to get loud to be heard? And on Sunday, I was reminded of how. “Prayer, power, harvest” was a phrase that our pastor kept repeating. We have to start with prayer. After we’ve spent time in prayer, we are filled with the power of the Holy Spirit. And it is after that filling that we are able to be active in the harvest. As a mom, our children are part of that harvest. That is my calling right now. That is my “big thing”. How much would change, if I intentionally took time to spend focused time in prayer every day? A single prayer isn’t a big thing, but consistency in prayer can lead to big things. (I know, I know, for all of my readers who were brought up in the religious legality of having a set prayer time every day, this must seem scandalous that I don’t have that at this time. It’s been part of deconstruction for me, and I’m still figuring it out.)

Yesterday, I was working on a book that I am writing with and for some friends, and I realized that I can wait til I have all the things done and have a nice chunk of time set aside for working on the project. Or I can keep my computer and headphones accessible and visible and do 10 min here or 30 min there. If I can do that, I’ll have a few hours logged at the end of every week, and the project will continue moving along. Once again it’s one of those “small things”.

My current audiobook is The Slight Edge by Jeff Olson. In it, Jeff talks repeatedly about how big breakthroughs are actually a culmination of many small decisions and steps that led up to that point. Edison didn’t invent a working lightbulb in one day. It took 100s of tries. NASA didn’t decide one morning to suddenly send a man to the moon. There were years of inventions, trials, and computations more than we can imagine. These small things, these small decisions that we make every day may seem completely insignificant, but if we keep after them, they will change our lives. These things can work both positively and negatively. What small things are we allowing in our lives, and where will those small things take us in five years?

I have spent a significant amount of brain space on this topic this last week, and I’ve been pondering all the many small areas in my life where I could improve. While thinking of where I could improve, I’ve also started to recognize areas where I’ve taken small steps already and what that has led to in my current status.

Always saying yes to what I believe God wants me to do has given me a husband, three children, and an amazing life that I could never have dreamed of on my own.

Becoming more disciplined in writing has led to the completion of my first book and the opportunity to help someone else write theirs.

Reading books nearly every day to our children has led to our 4-year-old begging to learn how to read.

Being more intentional about drinking more liquids every day has led to fewer headaches from dehydration and an increased awareness of when I need water.

Choosing to fill my working hours with audiobooks instead of TV shows has led to the completion of 76 books this year and an expanded awareness of various things in our world.

So many of these things would be just as easy to not do. They don’t take that much effort in the moment, and there are no immediate bad consequences if you don’t do them. However, I can see the effects when I choose to do them, so I will continue to do so. I am also looking for more small ways to improve. And honestly, small things seem much more doable in this season of life. I don’t have the energy to tackle a huge undertaking right now.

What small ways are you improving your life?

Bookworm Alert

What book could you read over and over again?

I love reading. I’ve always loved reading. Many were the times that my mom would have to work hard to interrupt my imagination that was completely captured by the book in my hands. I read all the books in our school library, even the ones that were hidden in the back closet and were deemed inappropriate for some reason to have on the shelves. (Perks of being the child of the school janitors!)

We went to the library every single week and borrowed hundreds of books over the years. We went so often that I actually memorized my library card number and knew exactly where on the shelves the books were that I wanted to read. We also ordered in books from other libraries and eagerly watched the wait list until we were next in line. One summer during the summer reading program at the library, when I was around 10 or 11, I read around 200 books in one week! (Most of them were actually age level appropriate.)

However, there are only a few books that I will read over and over and never tire of. One such series is the King of the Trees books.

The King of the Trees books were written in the early 2000s by William D Burt, who is an author from near my hometown in Oregon. (You can find his website here.) They are a Christian allegorical fantasy series, and for some reason, I absolutely love them. I was gifted the series a few years ago and read them about once a year. I can hardly wait till our children are old enough to enjoy them.

There are nine books in the series King of the Trees, Torsils in Time, The Golden Wood, The Greenstones, The Downs, Kyleah’s Mirrors, and The Birthing Tree. My favorites are King of the Trees and The Greenstones.

The other books I never tire of are the classics from the 1950s, the Chronicles of Narnia. I must confess, though, that my favorite version of these books is the dramatized audio versions from Focus on the Family Radio Theatre. I have listened to them so many times that I can quote large sections of the audio.

This series has seven books, The Lion the Witch and the Wardrobe; Prince Caspian; The Voyage of the Dawn Treader; The Silver Chair; The Horse and His Boy; The Magician’s Nephew; and The Last Battle. My personal favorites from this series are The Horse and His Boy and The Silver Chair.

I love a good fantasy, but I’ve been spoiled by having read these two series, and now all others must compare. If they don’t, I don’t bother reading them. (And no, to all those who love the Lord of the Rings, I do NOT enjoy those books! Boo! 😄)

I have a goal to read more books this year than I read last year, and I’m well on my way to that goal. And now that I’ve written this, I might need to go get out my books and read them once again.

What books are you reading?